There’s more to mealtime than food, or at least there should be. Otherwise, you might as well grab your plate and eat in front of the television.
Creating a mood with music and good conversation means it’s less likely that your dinner companions will jump up and vacate the premises the second they swallow that last bite.
I like to set a tone for dinner. I vary it depending on the food I’m serving and on what’s going on in our lives on a particular day. Rarely does dinner time pass when we haven’t lingered a bit after we’ve finished eating.
When I make something with an Italian twist, my favorite accompaniment is the cool, easy style of Dean Martin. You can’t help but get in the spirit as he croons, “when the moon hits your eye like a big pizza pie, that’s amore.”
When it’s romance I’m going for, I play the CD compilation we made for our wedding day. From the first note to the last, it holds deep meaning for both of us.
When I feel particularly energetic and upbeat, I’ll tune in to 70’s rock. We can’t help but sing a few notes as we clear the table, and it makes washing the dishes less dreary.
If I’m feeling funky on the weekends, I’ll tune in to NPR, which plays radio shows from the 40’s and 50’s that never fail to amuse.
Occasionally, if there is big news going on, I’ll set the radio to a news station, but I keep that to a
minimum. News tends to agitate more often than not, and upsets the digestive process.
The television is not an option. Neither is answering the phone.
I like to keep a focus on what’s going on right at our dinner table. The rest of the day we’re constantly wired in to the internet, an endless stream of emails, phones, and work. It doesn’t seem too much to ask that we carve out a bit of time to make dinner a special part of our day. We’ve come to treasure our little ritual.
With the economy being what it is, and people opting to stay home for dinner in greater numbers, maybe more folks will see the value in it.
It just so happens that tonight I’m making Italian sausage and peppers, so a few candles and my trusty Dean Martin CD will be on hand to seal the deal.